As no two snowflakes have been proven to ever be the same, so it is with us, MANKIND. Man and woman from a biblical standpoint are "the crowning points of God's creation." We are the "apple of His eye" and the desire of His heart is to see us prosper. Now, by prospering I do not mean an overabundance of things like money, possessions, power, etc, although He can certainly bestow those things upon anyone of His choosing. No, by prospering I mean the ability to function, exist, and live…
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Posted on May 28, 2008 at 10:00pm — 5 Comments
Grief is like a cut...!!! When the cut is fresh you cover or bandage it because it hurts. You do everything in your power to protect the wound from getting hurt again. You really do not want to talk about the cut, YOU JUST WANT TO COVER IT. But slowly and surely, AS THE CUT HEALS, you can touch it, and as it continues to heal you can begin to talk about how the cut occurred in the first place. But, the cut WILL LEAVE A SCAR; and the SCAR WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. Yes g…
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Posted on May 28, 2008 at 12:59pm — 4 Comments
Now, I realize that in Part 1 of this BLOG I brought God Himself into the equation. I do this because as a Priest and Minister of God I have found that another problem many people experience as the result of the death of a loved one is a crisis in their personal faith.
To many people the nature and circumstances of the actual death itself that has occurred may challenge their spiritual beliefs, especially with those who are counted as members of the Christian faith, of which I myself…
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Posted on May 22, 2008 at 12:56am — 3 Comments
Many times when the death of someone we love or care deeply for occurs we cannot or do not wish to believe it has really happened. We can feel like we have experienced a bad dream. We believe the deceased person will soon "walk through the front door of our home" and that life will return to normal again very soon.
It is at this time that the 1st step in the HEALING PROCESS about grief; THAT ABILITY TO RECOGNIZE THAT LOSS HAS OCCURRED is a truth we must come to understand and g…
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Posted on May 22, 2008 at 12:15am — 5 Comments
Dear Friends and Reader of my BLOG. It is my express desire that this little excerpt from Tom Golden's book entitled "Swallowed by a Snake" will provide some positive insight and help to those who grieve and mourn the loss of someone we love. Mr. Golden is Board Certified Social Worker, Pyscho-Therapist, and professional Speaker who specializes in healing from loss and trauma.
Perhaps the following story may help us all in looking at other aspects of working th…
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Posted on April 17, 2008 at 3:30am — 4 Comments