hello friends,
tomorrow would have been gjon's 27th birthday----he has been gone now for 6 1/2 yrs. but it still feel's like today---he was my son but also my good friend so i feel like i lost more---nick is doing ok he does have a very very hard time with survivor guilt as he never lost concenest and was trying to help his brother but his injury wouldn't let him---pray for us tomorrow as we try to get thru another day
thank you all
marie
So sorry .... I wonder. How did Nick handle being a survivor? I mean....for some surviving can be very hard....they feel guilty that someone they love was lost and they are still alive. I was wondering if Nick experienced that.
"I am so very sorry for your loss." No matter how heartfelt they are intended. those words can feel trite or cliché... that is the problem with expressing sympathy with just words...they do not seem like they would be enough. We mean the best....but those words don't seem to be enough.
That is why I wanted to create this site. I think that over time....with words, prayers, photos, video, and heartfelt emotions....we can all express what we truly feel to each other....
We want to share that life is precious, that time goes too fast, and that we don't feel like we have nearly enough time to be with those we love. And when one of those people leave this world.... we wonder just how can we possibly get along with out them?
It is my prayer that not only can we find a way to remember those lost....but that, in their honor, we can find a way to keep making life precious.
This is your site. Feel free to explore at your own pace.... and contribute thoughts, prayers, photos, music and videos as you feel is best.
I am here to help you in any way possible. If you have any questions at all...please let me know.
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hope that you have a happy mothers day
tomorrow would have been gjon's 27th birthday----he has been gone now for 6 1/2 yrs. but it still feel's like today---he was my son but also my good friend so i feel like i lost more---nick is doing ok he does have a very very hard time with survivor guilt as he never lost concenest and was trying to help his brother but his injury wouldn't let him---pray for us tomorrow as we try to get thru another day
thank you all
marie
Eric
Welcome to the Healing Community.
"I am so very sorry for your loss." No matter how heartfelt they are intended. those words can feel trite or cliché... that is the problem with expressing sympathy with just words...they do not seem like they would be enough. We mean the best....but those words don't seem to be enough.
That is why I wanted to create this site. I think that over time....with words, prayers, photos, video, and heartfelt emotions....we can all express what we truly feel to each other....
We want to share that life is precious, that time goes too fast, and that we don't feel like we have nearly enough time to be with those we love. And when one of those people leave this world.... we wonder just how can we possibly get along with out them?
It is my prayer that not only can we find a way to remember those lost....but that, in their honor, we can find a way to keep making life precious.
This is your site. Feel free to explore at your own pace.... and contribute thoughts, prayers, photos, music and videos as you feel is best.
I am here to help you in any way possible. If you have any questions at all...please let me know.
Eric
Love and gratitude to you and your family. Welcome, and we're glad you are here.
Debi
Welcome to the website-I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your son and his brother also being in the accident.
You'll meet many other members here who have lots of support to share; post more when you are ready.
blessings.
lucretia