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Hi. My name is NIn and I am wife to my fantastic husband, mother to three wonderful boys, 10, 7, 1 and 1 perfect angel Tallie, who passed away 2yrs ago at the age of three. We live in Australia.
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Tallie was born 1st March 2003. She was little sister to 2 older brothers and her pressence completed our family. She knew how to charm everyone with her sparkling eyes and smile. At 2 1/2 yrs Tallie was diagnosed with JMML, a rare type of leukemia. She was so brave. We opted not to put her through conventional treatment given her prognosis with this form of leukemia. She is my hero. She is the light of our life.
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At 5:44pm on June 14th, 2008, jennifer Margaret said…
Thank you Nin for your feedback to me. I don't feel so alone anymore. I feel like you and this site is giving me freedom to feel again. Jennifer
At 10:08pm on June 5th, 2008, MissingMyAmazingSonBrad said…
Hi Nin -
So Sorry about your beautiful precious Tallie.... Sending you Love.
At 11:42am on May 17th, 2008, Amanda said…
Nin, the girls had quite a hard time because Nathan died so unexpectedly. They had lots of questions about heaven, which I answered as best I could. Now they don't talk about him often. Mishke (who is 9 today) sometimes cries because she misses him. Stephanie (10) is very quiet about him, but also picks up when something somebody says is hurting me. They are very mature for their age. Like little adults sometimes, which I find sad. What did help them, but hurts me tremendously is that 6 months after Nathan died, we moved from their father and far away from Nathan's grave. They don't have constant reminders of Nathan apart form some pictures and that is better for them. I long to be where Nathan lived, to care for his grave, but for safety reasons that is not possible now. The hardest for me was to realize their lives have to go on. They didn't stop living because I felt like dying. Most of the time they are still the reason why I get up in the mornings. Life has to go on for them.

Sometimes their friends say the most hurtful things. Their one friend asked me the other day if the ants are eating Nathan's body. Guess I don't have to tell you how that made me feel!

I'm not glad that your precious Tallie went to heaven prematurely, but I'm grateful to share my experience with a mother whose child was also only 3. Don't know if you find that it is a very rare age for children to die. Of course children should never die before their parents, but I'm sure you know what I mean.

Nathan's death is so embedded in my memory, I some days find it hard to remember him alive. Do you find that too?

Take care!
Amanda
At 6:57am on May 16th, 2008, Denise, loving daughter of Angel Charlotte said…
Oh My Goodness! Your daughter is so pretty! What beautitul children you have...

Denise
At 3:40am on May 15th, 2008, Gail Richardson said…
Hi Nin - thank you for sharing your BEAUTIFUL little Angel Tallie - what a star. Look out for her brilliant twinkle in the sky over your home at night because she will be sending you many hugs.
I'm so glad that you gave Tallie the best of her life - we Mother's who have been faced with this awful dilemma cannot possibly explain what a difficult decision we have to make. My daughter Meshael was diagnosed with a rare genetic disorder (Fanconi Anaemia) she died two days before her 15th birthday in 2001 -- after being told that she would not live past seven years of age. Every day with her was a special miracle. I look forward to getting to know you and your Angel better
love Gail x
At 9:54pm on May 14th, 2008, Amanda said…
Nin, Tallie is gorgeous. You must feel the loss terribly. Welcome to the board. I'm also pretty new around here, but it is great to know there are people who understand and care.
At 8:11pm on May 7th, 2008, Director said…
Hello There:

Welcome to the Healing Community.

"I am so very sorry for your loss." No matter how heartfelt they are intended. those words can feel trite or cliché... that is the problem with expressing sympathy with just words...they do not seem like they would be enough. We mean the best....but those words don't seem to be enough.

That is why I wanted to create this site. I think that over time....with words, prayers, photos, video, and heartfelt emotions....we can all express what we truly feel to each other....

We want to share that life is precious, that time goes too fast, and that we don't feel like we have nearly enough time to be with those we love. And when one of those people leave this world.... we wonder just how can we possibly get along with out them?

It is my prayer that not only can we find a way to remember those lost....but that, in their honor, we can find a way to keep making life precious.

This is your site. Feel free to explore at your own pace.... and contribute thoughts, prayers, photos, music and videos as you feel is best.

I am here to help you in any way possible. If you have any questions at all...please let me know.

Eric
 
 

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