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About Me:: I am 39 and a mother of one wonderful 12yr old boy Nathanal. Nat and I lost Ron my husband and Nat's stepdad 4yrs ago this April 8th. It was the night before Good Friday and I had turned off his life support as he was brain dead. It took around 2wks from when he went to hospital with sore legs till he passed away. He has chirrus of the liver but it was septasemia that got him in the end. Though they were related as one caused the other. I am a member of Youngwidows2

Tell a little about the person lost...: Ron was a loving sweet man. He was 12yrs and almost 6mths older than me. I am his third wife. He had 2 kids to his first and none to his second. He was a kind hearted and caring man, who lost his kids to a selfish greedy ex- wife. He was a good father to my son and loved life. Ron left school when he was 13 as he found school hard. He started working in the timer indersry apon living school. Living and working in small timber towns the workers always unwond by drinking after work. So Ron started drink at a very young age sealing his fate. He was 47yrs old when he died and I was 35 Nat was 8.
We lost Ron's mum Jan Feb 2007. She was just 70.

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At 1:45am on April 8th, 2008, Tracey Van Klingeren said…: It is Ron's Angel Day today. 8th April

At 8:07pm on March 25th, 2008, Jerri said…: thank you for the hug. I really needed it. I am sorry I didn't get back to you sooner. I had some computer problems and finals to study for.

At 6:51am on March 20th, 2008, Pammy said…: Thank you for the words of condolence...
I am sorry for your loss of your husbsand, Please Know My Heart Is Thinking of You... It is so sad families Just Don't Understand our loss! it is easier to pretend that they dont remember for then the pain of our loss doesnt touch them...
From My Heart To Yours
4EVERBENJIMANSMOM
PAMMY

At 1:57am on March 20th, 2008, Tracey Van Klingeren said…: Even though Ron died 8/04/'04. It was the night before Good Friday. So he has two Angel Days. The date and the time of the year.
Boy am I feeling it this time. It is the hardest one ever. My mood is all over the place.
My boyfriend of just over 6mths is coming to stay and will arrive at 10:30pm tonight so maybe this is why. It will be the first Easter I have spent with another man. Christmas was a lot easier.

At 2:45am on March 17th, 2008, Tracey Van Klingeren said…: Almost Easter and I'm feeling down. My family just don't get it. They think the date of Ron's death and his birthday are all the days I need to grieve for him now. Mum is the most understanding. What they forget is Ron died the night before Good Friday so I have that day which is different each year, then the date.

At 1:04pm on March 13th, 2008, Gail Richardson said…: Tracey - families suck don't they? I'm sending you healing light and hope that the memories will all be happy ones of your wedding day to such a wonderful man. Your description of Ron sings of your love and devotion to him. I'm sorry they forgot, sometimes they think they are sparing us? If they walked a mile in our shoes they would know how very important all these anniversaries are. You take care
Gail

At 4:26am on March 13th, 2008, Tracey Van Klingeren said…: My family forgot my anniversary yet again, it would not be so bad if it wasn't for the fact that we got married only 9days after my dad's birthday. And on a long weekend that happens every year

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