As no two snowflakes have been proven to ever be the same, so it is with us, MANKIND. Man and woman from a biblical standpoint are "the crowning points of God's creation." We are the "apple of His eye" and the desire of His heart is to see prosper. Now, by prospering I do not an overabundance of things like money, possessions, power, etc, although He can certainly bestow those things upon anyone of His choosing. No, by prospering I mean the ability to function, exist, and live in a hea… Continue
Posted on May 28th, 2008 at 7:00pm —
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Grief is like a cut...!!! When the cut is fresh you cover or bandage it because it hurts. You do everything in your power to protect the wound from getting hurt again. You really do not want to talk about the cut, YOU JUST WANT TO COVER IT. But slowly and surely, AS THE CUT HEALS, you can touch it, and as it continues to heal you can begin to talk about how the cut occurred in the first place. But, the cut WILL LEAVE A SCAR; and the SCAR WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. Yes g… Continue
Posted on May 28th, 2008 at 9:59am —
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Now, I realize that in Part 1 of this BLOG I brought God Himself into the equation. I do this because as a Priest and Minister of God I have found that another problem many people experience as the result of the death of a loved one is a crisis in their personal faith.
To many people the nature and circumstances of the actual death itself that has occurred may challenge their spiritual beliefs, especially with those who are counted as members of the Christian faith, of which I myself… Continue
Posted on May 21st, 2008 at 9:56pm —
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Many times when the death of someone we love or care deeply for occurs we cannot or do not wish to believe it has really happened. We can feel like we have experienced a bad dream. We believe the deceased person will soon "walk through the front door of our home" and that life will return to normal again very soon.
It is at this time that the 1st step in the HEALING PROCESS about grief; THAT ABILITY TO RECOGNIZE THAT LOSS HAS OCCURRED is a truth we must come to understand and g… Continue
Posted on May 21st, 2008 at 9:15pm —
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Dear Friends and Reader of my BLOG. It is my express desire that this little excerpt from Tom Golden's book entitled "Swallowed by a Snake" will provide some positive insight and help to those who grieve and mourn the loss of someone we love. Mr. Golden is Board Certified Social Worker, Pyscho-Therapist, and professional Speaker who specializes in healing from loss and trauma.
Perhaps the following story may help us all in looking at other aspects of working th… Continue
Posted on April 17th, 2008 at 12:30am —
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Sara J
hope you are well and happy, and having a great week!
Keep up the fantastic work you are doing!
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Jeanne
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Thank you for the comment.:) Hope all is well with you and sending you blessings to cheer and comfort you. God is in every flower that blooms and every smile we see and in every creation surrounding us. Thank you for shining your God light like a beacon. Have a great day!
Sincerely,
Cindy:)
I cant understand why, after 3 years I'm still in denial. People say I should be past that stage by now but I cant get past it.
Hopefully this site will help me.
God Bless!
I love your page and your wisdome - thanks for sharing.
Kathy
I am deeply touched by who you are in this community. I appreciate the clarity you bring to the process of healing from grief. I find myself quiet in this community but not from shyness... I feel as though I am completing my past in "fits and starts" - sometimes a memory will let me feel sad, and then I recall the joy the same memory also brings me. There is not enough time from a moment of grief to a moment of joy to sit and type.
I want to remember the name of the book I mentioned to you. There are some books I read in my teen years whose titles I do not now recall and this book was one. Another was a strange piece of fiction about reincarnation that gave me some nightmares. A third was an odd story about how a chef became a king of a little village. I don't recall the titles of any of these. Books I read in my youth and deeply appreciate include the Tales of Narnia by C.S. Lewis, Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse, and 6XH by Robert Heinlein.
Thank you for being available to us all.
Have a blessed day!
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